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anonymous
writes:My BF sent me this email and i don't know what to answer him, he stop talking to me 10 days ago without any reason and today he sent me this email.He works in Iraq as a project manager, i work in a neighboring country from Iraq so i do understand the pressure he goes through or i am just giving him excuses? I had work in Iraq too but not for too long and i didnt live there so is it right to keep giving him excuses and what will be your answer to this mail or he is just letting me go i am afraid he will come back and say its over.Hi,I love and miss you to, I am gonna take a shower and will not be able to stay on, plus I am using Ahmeds computer and he is not ok with it.I love you and want to tell you that I am sorry for all that I put you through and that I love you and will always love you, I just need my own me time to figure and clear my head and so that you are not always seeing the mean, and bad side of me.LOVE YOU Always
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reader, Love4Life +, writes (7 May 2009):
 Me and my friends actually had a discussion on this answer and we all agree that he is probably stressed and feels guilty for taking work or his stress out on you. It sounds like he loves you and is tired of hurting you. He wants some time to clear his head so he can be their for you like it sounds like you've been their for him. Sometimes work can be so overwhelming we take it out on the ones we love without meaning too. with out all the details this is the best conclusion we came to. I hope this helps....Miah
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reader, SRNSRN +, writes (7 May 2009):
The truth is in the email. He is sorry and does need space to clear his head. He does not want you to see his bad side. When a man say he loves you, he love you. Those words are not easy to say. Just be patient with him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2009): It sounds like he needs a bit of space so try and find plenty to do next time if he leaves it so long and don't write asking him why. That way he will also wonder what you are doing!
It's hard to work out what is going on with emails - could you talk to each other on the phone?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2009): it sounds to me that your bestfriend has feelings for you and that he wants to think about what choice will he make , he could run the risk of losing a friend by opening up to you , are jus keep his feelings bottld up . that is wat i think = ]
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