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writes: There's a guy who Ive known for about 5 years lets just say his name is Jon. Jon is a great guy. When I first met him we were talking and hanging out together almost all the time, very innocent fun, but at the same time I was in a failing relationship with another guy. Jon wanted me to leave my boyfriend to be with him but I didn't. After breaking up with the boyfriend I moved and lost contact with everyone I used to spend time with including him. I've recently ran into the Jon for the first time in 3 years and sort of want to hang out with him again. I've sense that he may still like me by the way he looks at me and the conversations we've had but Now the roles have changed, I'm the pursuer and really don't know how to go about it. I really dont want him to think "Oh I haven't heard from this chick in 3 years and all of a sudden she's calling or wants to chill." Any Suggestions on what I should do? Reply to this Question
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reader, Original shiraz!  +, writes (6 May 2009):
Unless you make the first move i doubt hes going too, taking a knock back will always hurt even after a few years. From what youve said he likes you, if you want it enough take that step and ask him. Obviously the situation is a lot different but you could both use the current situation to your advantage, your in a position where you can take risks such as this, big question is he? If so then both go for it! People let good things of the past go to waste far to often
:) good luck
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