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anonymous
writes:Online dating.I need some advice regarding a guy a met on myspace. I was browsing on MySpace the other day and came across this really cute guy. I checked out his page and seemed like we have a lot in common. I requested to add him as a friend and he accepted. Since that day we had been emailing every day for hours. After 4 days of emailing he asked for my cell # to text. We have been flirtatious and he has said that I am very sexy. I had emailed him a face pic plus he has seen the photos I have on my page. We text non stop for hours for 3 days. I finally asked him if we could talk on the phone so I could hear his voice. He called and we had a good conversation about the weather and stuff. I am new to the dating thing and dont want to ruin it. I am very excited at the possibilities with this guy. I am not sure if I should ask top meet him in person or wait for him to ask me. I know he is single and also new to the dating thing. I just dont want to wait too long to meet and have high expectations or fantasy expectations and wait too long before we meet. Also I am not sure if I should text him or wait for him to text me first. Any input on this? If it helps I am 33 Divorced and he is 28 never been married. Thanks for any advice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2009): I think you are right in not wanting to wait too long. Don't be too eager and let him do the chasing, but throw in a hint somehow so that he knows if he asked to meet you, you would say yes.
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reader, sue111  +, writes (6 May 2009):
Just casually suggest going for a lunchtime beverage together in a public gathering. In the meantime try not to let your fantasies run wild then you won't possibly be disappointed. On the other had he might be great. You won't really know anything till yoy meet face to face, so go for it!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2009): text him if he wants to meet , and arrange it in a very open public area, andhave fun!
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