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writes:Sometimes I try so hard to get my boyfriend in the mood for sex, and it never seems to work. Sometimes he'll tell me to wait till later or brush it off. We don't have sex often and when we do it seems I'm the one who is starting it up. Does anyone maybe have an explanation for this?
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reader, brittany11307  +, writes (6 May 2009):
 i have the same problem!!! so i know exactly how you feel. honestly i cant tell ya wats goin on cuz i dont kno myself. whenever i wanna have sex he jus brushes it off or says no too. we've been together for a year n a half and usually we only have sex like once or twice a week and only on weekends.. he says its cuz hes tired from work all the time but that cant be the only thing.. cuz like someone else sed... all guys loveee sex! theyd do it in their sleep if they could.
i dont think it has anything to do with the way he feels bout u cuz my bf loves me to death and still wont..
sorry i cant be more help as to y he wont, but jus wanted to let ya kno im in the same boat with ya!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2009): That's weird, because with a lot of guys, even if they're not in love anymore, they still want sex. How was it when you have had it? He may feel insecure about something. If he doesn't last long/is small/ doesn't think he performs well, he may try to avoid the activity.
Does he have a boner when he's saying he doesn't want it? Do things that you know turn him on. (kiss neck, straddle lap, etc.) and check to see if he's hard. If he is and still doens't want anything, then there is most likely an emotional problem. If he doesn't have one, then there is most likely something physically wrong.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2009): to me it sounds like he isnt intrested anymore... and sorry to say this but maybe you should be looking for another guy! all i can say is talk to him about how your feeling if he is truly into you then he will understand and make a effort if not then you deserve better.
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reader, kellyxxx  +, writes (6 May 2009):
 Have you spoken to him about this? It is an issue which needs to be discussed. X
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