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*homotso
writes:We've been abstaining from sex since from the beginning of our relationship,thats 8 months ago.2 weeks we finaly did it and wow it was marveleous,not after all this waiting.We not regreting it and concluded to do it more often.Here's the problem,during our 1st time the condom burst,but worry not i didn't ejeculate in her.For we think we should do it often then we should not use condoms because if anyone of us is sick then we both sick because of that lil' incident.And I can't say no to the decision because she might think I'm cheating or something So I wanna know which contraceptive ya'll prescribe for us and whether we made the right decisioin of stopping the use of condoms?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2009): 1. If you think you can be "sick" with an STD = go do a test at a medical center! Then you will know. Dont just think it doesnt matters, you NEED to know if you are a spreader of an STD. Even if you havnet infected each other YET, it can still happen later (no, STD's dont always follow the rules).
3. Even if you didnt ejaculate in her, its ignorant to believe she can not still get pregnant. Get her a pregnancy test.
4. If you want to have sex without a condom = get both yourself and your girlfriend tested for STD's and then she can start on for example, the birth control pill.
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reader, saftynet456  +, writes (6 May 2009):
Condoms are very good but you do need to get to know how best to use them.If you have a accident with most contraceptives you do not know about it until the lady is pregnant.Try using spermicide in the form of foam or film and be careful applying your condom making sure not to contaminate the outside of the condom with any precum also make sure your fingure nails are not sharp which could puncture the rubber, otherwise used with care condoms are very very reliable, with practice.
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reader, saftynet456 +, writes (6 May 2009):
Condoms are very good but you do need to get to know how best to use them.If you have a accident with most contraceptives you do not know about it until the lady is pregnant.Try using spermicide in the form of foam or film and be careful applying your condom making sure not to contaminate the outside of the condom with any precum also make sure your fingure nails are not sharp which could puncture the rubber, otherwise used with care condoms are very very reliable, with practice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2009): im going to have to agree with kellyxxx.
Unless you are planning to have children you should always use a condom because it also stops the risk of getting STIs. The best contreceptions to use other than the condom is the contreception pill, the coil or the implant. Talk to your partner and discuss what she will prefer to use. Trust me, if you dont want children just yet always use contreception.
I hope this helps.
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reader, kellyxxx  +, writes (6 May 2009):
 You need to use condoms! And even if you don't ejaculate in to her she can still get pregnant from pre-cum. She needs to do a pregnancy test and if any of you have had sex before you need to do std tests! If you want to stop using condoms you will need another form of contraception, such as the pill, the injection, iud, implant.... You are stupid if you stop using condoms!
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