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writes:Hi, I'm fifteen years olds. I really like a girl who is about two or three years older than me, and she seems like such a bright, nice, person and I really want to befriend her. The thing is, she's some sort of church girl and it's really hard to just walk up to someone during a sermon and just be like, "Hi, my name is 'so and so,' what's your favorite color?"I've tried for so long to get to know her, but I never got any further than a 'hello' it's so agrivating. I like her so much, but I can never talk to her like a person, and it's not like I can can just meet her at some youth group, she's 18 for christ's sake, she's probably working her way towards college. Before I degress much further, I wonder if I should just let go of how I feel about all this and wait for the hurt to die out, or approach her at risk of falling victim to social awkwardness? And if I do, choose to advance, how? If not, why?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2009): If you do decide to approach her, be brave, and remember that although she seems like a goddess to you, she is really just a human being like everyone else. She is just like you and me. So try not to feel intimidated.
Good luck. x
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reader, siiLviia  +, writes (6 May 2009):
Church girl? Like the movie "A Walk To Remember"?
Do you have an older friend, cousin, uncle or whatever? Around her age so they can join an activity she does and then they can become friends and then they introduce you. Or are you friends with any of her friends? that works too.
If anything above can't help you, find a way to do it by yourself.
But having someone else's help works pretty good. (That's how 14 year old me got a 20 year old haha)
Good luck honey! :)
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