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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I've been with my boyfriend for just over a year and I'm soo in love with him, but everything's getting me down lately and he's given up a lot for me and we're getting back on track and things are getting good with him again, Ii just worry I'm not enough. He cheated on me and I cheated on him although I didn't have sex and now I feel so horrible about myself, I love him so much but he broke my heart and with breaking my heart my self confidence that was already low has plummeted and now the only joy I seem to get is eating a bar of galaxy or something equally chocalatey! I'm really struggling to get my life sorted and I am putting on a lot of weight, I just want to be happy and all I do is cry. I've stopped self harming now and I just need a quick fix, I'm not fat enough for a gastric band and the healthy slow option will keep weight off but I need something to feel good about. I need to like myself again and every channel I turn on there is some pretty girl with matchstick legs and a tiny waist and I keep thinking what's wrong with me... Anyone got any quick ways to lose weight they'd like to share without the surgery?
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reader, mimisoph3  +, writes (7 May 2009):
 it seems to me that you dont love yorurself and your not comfortable with your body.. but you should be comfortable cuz everyones a diffrent shape and size and no one looks like those people on tv, theres a chance they actually edit them.. it seems like you have to find yourself and figure out who you really are.. i think you should just go on a vacation far away only you no one elseee and experience some things you never did.. have fun and let loose.. thats the best way to figure it all out is when your having fun and letting loose.. theres always other guys and a lot of chances in life. just cuz one guy broke ur heart doesnt mean the world is ending.. you gotta have fun, loosen up i'm sure you'll find someone that makes you happier then you ever did good luck with finding yourself and loving it.
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