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*rendan
writes:There is a girl Ive been with for a few months now. I have never met anyone like her. Theres no way to describe it but I love her. I assure you its not infatuation, far from it.I think the feelings are reciprocrated because shes told me she loves me. and one time she said that she loves me more than i think. But Im not stupid, and I know if love isnt maintained it can quickly be in the past..Now I feel insecure sometimes (bad experiences), although we still see each other every weekend. I get to see her on the bus once a week from college and lately ive been noticing how withdrawn she is from conversation. She says shes tired. But I dont know for sure. It is after a day at school so it could..What should I do to maintain a good relatonship without being careless but also without being invasive of her space.. I reali love her. Thank you guys
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reader, brendan +, writes (8 May 2009):
brendan is verified as being by the original poster of the questionive asked her if shes been okay and she says shes fine. so i dont kno :S
she doesnt reply to my msgs either if i dont give her a specific question and i asked her why and she sed to save money
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reader, Love4Life +, writes (6 May 2009):
 First off I sense that you have fear from past relationships as you stated. You have to remember that every one is different. I have been hurt multiple times by allowing my heart what it wants and then being denied when I thought it safe to let that other person hold it. I had to come to realize that my girlfriend now wife was not those other woman.
It sounds like your lady friend is stressed. Col ledge has that effect. I would try to be supportive and just be their that is what she needs most. One thing I know is that when your their for some one they will never forget. Try to take her out to eat or a movie nothing to fancy because with school she could fear that she doesn't have the time to commit to a relationship and is scared to tell you. So the best thing is to be their for her that will show your love better than words could ever try too. I hope this has been of help...
Miah
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries  +, writes (6 May 2009):
 why don't you try talking to her when you guys do see eachother ask her what is really bothering her?perhaps she is struggling with some stuff at college but dones'nt want to tell anyone what's wrong because she wants to sort it out herself.maybe you are just being a bit paranoid about the whole thing and perhaps she is just tired.or maybe she is thinking on things and thinking that you guys are drifting apart but she doesn't want to say anything just incase it hurts you.but you do need to try and find out the problem once and for all especially if it's making you think things that you don't want to jump to conclusions too.Hope this helps.best of luck
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