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36-40,
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writes: Dear All,Having been in a stormy on and off relationship for two and a half years I finally cracked and joined a dating agency. I waited some months before going on a first date. The guy was stunning, however I kept my wits about me and played it cool. We got on pretty well and the physical attraction was evident. We continued to see each other a few times over the course of 2 months but things started going weird the week before his holiday. He ignored my calls and texts. Eventually he got back to me assuring me that he was just busy and would call me after his hols. I remained hopeful. The trouble is I really really like him. I tried so hard to prevent myself from falling too easily but the weekend he got back the promised call never came. I finally managed to get hold of him but he seemed incredibly distant and eager to get off the phone. Again I called him and left a sweet text asking if i could see him again. He got back to me the next day, the moment i saw his message on my mobile my heart sank. He met someone on holiday. At least he had the decency to be honest and come clean. I am incredibly hurt by it all. It seemed so promising and I genuinely believed it couldve developed into something over time. I wonder what made him distant? I wish he would tell me what he was thinking at the time. Did he decide that he didn't want to see me again during our last meeting? I wish I knew. I was so sure that he really liked me.
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reader, kellyxxx  +, writes (7 May 2009):
 A lot of people in an un secured relationship tend to go distant towards a holiday, this is because there could be a better oppotunity abroad. Obviously for your partner there was another person who caught his eye, the best thing you could do is to accept that he met someone else and get over him, it will take a bit of time but consider it as a lucky escape! You'll find someone else soo, and I'm sure they will be better than him! X
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