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writes:ok here would be my problem, i've been dating this guy for a week.. and now im starting to think this is just a friend kind of thing. and i don't wanna hurt him because i'm afraid that he'll be mad and that he won't wanna be just friends afterwards. :( not to mention there is ANOTHER guy that i REALLY REALLY like and he is like.. amazing. and im not sure of what to do.. please help me.. what do i do?? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2009): 1. How much of a "feeling" can you be getting after only a week about this relationship? Why are you with this guy if from the very start you think it's going to fail...?
2. If you like another guy so much, that is not at all fair to your bf. You didn't list how you feel about your bf, but if you feel so strongly for another guy, why be with this one? Were so young, why not just be happy with who were happy with?
I hope this helped!
-GG
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reader, iSmil3y +, writes (6 May 2009):
If you really like this other guy, then you can't stay in the relationship you're in and expect it to be perfect. You have to be honest with the guy you're dating now and tell him that you don't see him as a boyfriend but more as a friend. If you're not honest then the relationship won't turn out good and you won't be happy in the end and neither will he. Just be honest.
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reader, thatgothgirl20 +, writes (6 May 2009):
 Don't avoid going with your gut because you are afraid of someone getting mad at you. Don't let how they might end up feeling or acting control the way you act.
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reader, Shadowplay  +, writes (6 May 2009):
If he likes you he wont mind just being friends!! Be honest.
And do you only think you want to be friends because you like this other guy? and what are your chances with him - does he feel the same?
I wouldnt want to blow him off because of a crush...
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