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anonymous
writes:Ok i just sort of got out of this relationship recently and its troubling me a little bit atm....I had this fling with a girl a couple months back, where everytime i was with her i was either at a party or club and pretty drunk mostly.So we got pretty close and what happened was i eventually decided that i didnt love her as much as she loved me but i did like her as a friend (no bullshit)as she is really bubbly, funny and nice..As it was nothing official and we weren't dating i couldn't break up with her nor could i just say bluntly i dont love you.So as i didnt want to hurt her by telling her that (as she really did like me) i decided to become a little bit distant and neutral about everything and see her less, etc..As stupid as this was to do, we didnt talk for a bit and then recently she texts me saying whats goin on?So knowing it'd be better to tell her something than keep her not knowing, i talked to her friend about the whole thing first and got her advice and she seemed really cool about it and promised not to tell this girl what i told her BEFORE i did..Problem is, she blatently did tell this girl as this girl is completely ignoring me now, which is fairly unusual. Now i kno what goes around comes around, but i feel really bad about the whole thing as i get the feeling she really hates me (which is fair enough), but also that shes really upset.I dunno, but i cant seem to get this off my mind, and even though i'm giving her space right now, i would really like to know if there is any way to better the situation, maybe stay as friends and somehow get rid of my guilt...or should i just let the whole thing go?
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