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In an environment like this, how can I find Mr. Right?

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Question - (1 August 2009) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Well, I broke up with my ex a few months ago. Right now, I am trying to fight the urge to get back with him but I really do want to because of one reason that I know is not reasonable. Because I am ALONE and LONELY.

Sometimes, I feel he wants me back too coz he replies within seconds if I text him. He is also hesitant to settle things that must be solved upon ending our relationship. The reason why we broke up is because of our differences in religion and the culture in which I cannot adapt to.(He asked me for marriage 3 times before)

If only things are different. But my question is, how am I going to meet a new person in an environment like this? I have dreams of meeting Mr. Right and getting married and definitely wants children but there is no one available out there who can share these things with me. Ninety nine percent of the men here is just like my ex. So dating these guys is like history repeating itself. And I never want to be in a situation like this. I thought it was easy to walk away but it almost even killed me of heart ache.

How do I meet my Mr. Right then? Currently, I am trying to meet men online but how can I make relationship with them if they are overseas? How can I trust what they say on the screen? I want someone to date with whom I can see, touch and speak to in person and share my life with. At work, people are either married or not available. The ones left is just like my ex, I have learned my lesson not to even dare think about dating them.

Can anyone give me suggestions what to do?

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