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writes:I found out about my wife cheating on me last week. The cheating happened 4 years ago November 2005... I am not sure what and how I should feel.It happened while we lived together, but before we got married. We lived together for about 7 years before we got married in 2006. She claims it to be a one tome occurrence, and the evidence I have supports her claim.It happened while I was working out of town for 6 weeks, which is normal for me. She met the guy online, chatted for a few days, then decided to meet for a drink. She claims to have drank too much, ended up back at this place, and she sucked him off a couple times. She says she didn't **** him, and the evidence I have also supports her claim here.I am angry with her because of the years of deceit she had us living under, we got married, had 2 kids, and I knew nothing of this prior escapade. Weird thing is, I often told her, that if she was curious about other guys, that we could do it together, I could join or watch, but we should be honest and open about our curiosities and experiences. She showed some interest, but always found an excuse to not make it a reality.So I don't even know how to take learning of the news.... one minute it excites the hell out of me to think about her sucking this guys thick 8" ****(I am 4.5"), and making him unload at least 2 different times in her face/mouth. The next I am sick to my stomach thinking my wife and partner of many years could deceive me so easily and for such a long period of time...Advice or comments appreciated... thanks.
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reader, GrimmReality +, writes (2 August 2009):
 lol....troll post. Its been outed on more than one site today...LMAO!
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 August 2009): I can imagine maybe it is a turn on for you as it is for most men,but the thought of her letting a man who she hardly knew ejaculate in her mouth is even a turn off for me and i am a female,if my partner went south on a woman and she came in his mouth i would end it with him as it is just plain nasty
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reader, xsugarx  +, writes (1 August 2009):
im sure your wife feels very shamefuly about doing this anyone would .... thats probally why she didnt tell you, and she obviously knew that she was in the wrong because she didnt have sex with the other guy. its natrual to feel used, angry,hurt etc but you cant live life goin backwards all the time you have to move forwards. as you said it happend 4 years ago and she hasnt cheated again since mab she got a bit lonely if your away most of the times .. a women needs to be able to feel loved and if your away so much you should put extra time into showing how much you love her, then this might not happen. my partner was away for 2 years and i felt exremly lonely but thought of some stuff that could still keep our realationhship alive...
get skype.. it allows you to veiw the other contact whilst speaking to them .. we had dates on skype, we would have dinner with eachother i know its a bit werid at first but its a really good way of keeping contact ! but in time you will get over this as many people do .. everyone has had someone cheating on them its modern life but keep strong and it will go away eventually if you well ad truly love her :D hope ive helped
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