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female
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36-40,
*b09
writes:I have been with my fiance since high school...we had our ups and downs but were going strong for a while...we had our first child 3 1/2 yrs ago. When my son was 4 months old I found out that he was messing with someone that he was working with. Well we worked thru that and got back together. Now we have our second child and have been doing good. Recently he has been wanting more freedom and wanting to go out and do things with his friends and I don't understand why. However my other big concern is he wants to do things but if I was to go out and do it he would not be happy at all...I am stuck in a situation and do not kno how to react to this. I do have some trust issues from what he did to me before and don't really think his friends are good influences since he is a easily influenced person...what do I do?
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reader, Princess D.  +, writes (1 August 2009):
 Dear, your man is a follower not a leader and thats actually a bad thing conidering children are involved. Sit him dwn, take control obviously being nice aint helping. Ask him if he truly loves you and the kids. ask him this when you are walking just the two of you. If he doesnt listen, leave a note while he is out and leave with the kids, temporarily making it seem permanent. Dont tell him u will leave just do it. Go over to a friend's house or family. Show him u serious, a relaionship requires both individuals. I hope i'm of some help, keep me posted.God bless you dear!!!Princess Diamond.
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