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A man's perspective on blow jobs....!

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Question - (1 August 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 1 August 2009)
A female Canada age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I need a guy's opinion. Any tips on how to give a great blowjob? What feels best for you when recieving a blowjob. What does she do that really drives you nuts? A man's perspective :D

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 August 2009):

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Thank you anonymous reader ^^ I'll take those tips into consideration! Super helpful! And Old Guy of course there is communication going on in our relationship, I was just curious about some pointers I could try out that we didn't really think of to make it better and unexpectedly "exciting" :P

OH, and for any sweethearts who will help me and answer my question with more tips here are the "basics" I know already lols

- No biting - ouch!

- Enthusiasm (really not a problem ;)

- Communication

- Lots of slober lol

- Definately swallow :D

- Use hands,mouth, and lots of tongue

Basics :D All I'm really looking for here are some specific things I could try and see if he really likes them. I really want to make it enjoyable for him 3

OH and some tips on how to make him super excited even before I begin ;) I'd like to hear YOUR opinions. Your wildest fantasize are welcome xD

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 August 2009):

Well, for me, the anticipation of getting a BJ is just as exciting as actually getting it. Like if the girl does foreplay on me first, kissing and sucking softly on the nipples of my chest, then moving down and kissing my torso, stomach, and lower stomach, and making that fast "mmm!mmm!mmm!mmm!mmm!mmmm!" sound and smacking her lips as she's doing it, like she's really enjoying it like a really tasty dessert or something. Then, she kisses the shaft of my penis, and licks it, both on top and undearneath, very slowly, this time making a slow "mmmmmmm!!" sound. That gets me very excited, so that I am rock hard by the time she actually gets her lips on the head of my penis. Then I like her to suck softly, again making a long, slow "mmmmmmmmmmmm" sound, like she's really savoring the taste of it. I would prefer that my GF swallow my ejaculate when I cum, but she usually spits it out. That doesn't bother me, but swallowing would tell me that she enjoys performing oral on me so much that she wants to have my cum inside her.

Let me know if this answer was helpful and if you have more questions.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 August 2009):

I see this question quite a lot here, and honestly I wonder if there's any communication happening in the relationship. The basic answer is, if you're willing to do it at all, chances are really good he's going to be happy about it.

For a first time, before you're talking about it, go slow and keep you teeth completely out of the picture. Lots of tongue, lots of saliva. Wet and slurpy is great. Decide *before* you start how you want it to end -- do you want to get him almost there and finish with your hand, or is it a spit/swallow question?

Later on you can talk about teeth, swallowing, snowballing, deep throat, etc.

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