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writes:Hi i'm new to this but would appreciate any advice.I met my ex nearly three years ago and we clicked straight away but it took me 9 months to ask her out. We had been together just over two yeras when she told me it was over. things had been hard since i had to take a part time job to make ends meat at the start of february and we didnt see that much of each other but when we did i'd do anything to make her happy. she said that it wasn't me but she had drifted away cos i wasn't there. she has said she still cares but doesn't want to go out with me right now. her best friend was sad to see us split and has said she thinks time apart will make her see what she's lost. we had talked about getting married and having kids before i had to work so much.i really do believe she is "the one", the person i want to spend the rest of my life with and i can make her happy again.is there anything i can do to get her back anything at all it would be worth any cost what so ever.thank you in advance.
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reader, Once a happy man  +, writes (2 August 2009):
 Just give her time and go do your own thing as hard as it may be if she loves you she will come back. You cant change her mind right now. She is set on what she wants give her space. In time you will know the answer but its gonna take "TIME" so you will need to be patient.
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