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writes:Ok. I'm really shit at asking out girls. I need some tips. I'm planing on asking out a girl next week at my party, (next time i see her), but i'm so bad at it. I havnt been with anyone in 2 years, and i hate it. But im not letting this one go. Please help, i would prefer if girls to answer =] thank you Reply to this Question
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reader, Elliiott  +, writes (2 August 2009):
 Hey, Guys can help you too ! :D
Girls, They love confidence, But not to much.
I would say go right ahead, Ask her if you could have a quick word with her, Take her somewhere pretty quiet, And yes, Compliments, I don't know, Something like, I like your hair tonight ?
&& If she says no, Well its no, But you have nothing to lose !
There are always more fish in the sea, So don't you worry.
Hope I helped, Good Luck !
- Elliott.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2009): Hey I'm also a girl around your age and I guess this is what I'd like:
-definitely make sure you two are alone, you don't need an audience, it should be a special moment for both of you.
-start by saying her name and turn so that you are facing each other square on and look into her eyes. Reach out and hold her hands if you are confident enough.
-here just be honest and tell her how you feel, you know...
'_____, I really like you, as more than a friend. I mean, you're smart/funny/beautiful (- basically add a compliment). I've been thinking about this for a while and tonight I felt I couldn't just let you go without tewlling you how I feel.'
-I guess after that just give her a chance to speak, see if she says anything. If she does - great! If she needs prompting you could carry on and ask her how she feels or whether she'd like to go out with you.
I hope this all goes well! xxx
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reader, bethevans +, writes (1 August 2009):
 The thing is, i've thought about your question long and hard.. and i've come up with what i would like a boy to say:).. not sure if other girls too ..but i'm a girl and probs around ur age so heey maybe shes the same.. well .. if you maybe get her on her own because babe if she doesn't feel the same then possibility your gna get humiliated infront of her + more .. so it isn't half as bad with just her:).. dnt start getting worried tho.. just say can i talk to u a sec... or woteva u please ( try to make this more .. your own words) .. maybe add in babe or hun or something and then just confidently say it .. be straight out.. and just go '__girlsname__ i like you' and then if shes quite ditsy .. she may go in what way ? and then you shud say .. more than a friend:) hope all goes wel bub x
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reader, Love is all you need +, writes (1 August 2009):
 well don't ask her in front of anyone, girls hate an audience and will say no or maybe. Bt if you get her on her own....NOT THE BEDROOM!! like your garden or something or whereever your having the party jst away from everyone. Flirt for a while then tell her how you feel, he is most likely to feel the same way if you read the signals right and then she will lean her head up slightly and thats when you kiss her!
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reader, hotredhead +, writes (1 August 2009):
 hey,
Always remember when asking a girl out that shes probably as nervous as you are and that you're both human beings. The best thing to do when asking her is to come across as confident but not arrogant confidence is very attractive. The other thing that help is 1 or 2 compliments but don't over do it like someone once told me compliments aren't ping pong balls hope this helps and good luck x
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