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Why cant I get a boyfriend?

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Question - (1 August 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 2 August 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *ate_123 writes:

hey :)

i really want a boyfrind to have that first kiss i mean why dont any boys like me ? whats the problem with me ?

peaple say well i dont know wether they are actually telling the truth but they say

i am :

kind

friendly

easy to talk to

funny

bubbly

stunning

beatiful

whats the problem are they lieing i mean i dont see my self as beatiful but if i did than i would love myself but i dont ! im not the smartest of people

but still why cant i get a boyfrind ?

xx

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2009):

i think jellybeans you are absolutely right.

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A female reader, jellybeans20009 United States +, writes (1 August 2009):

People may say this to you all the time and you might hate it so much that after you read this sentence you'll stop paying attention. But I'm going to say it anyways: You're still young.

There is so much time ahead for dating and experiencing all those wonderful things. A first kiss happens only once. When it does happen I think you would really want it to be with someone who you like a lot and who likes you back.

Just because you don't have a boyfriend does not mean you aren't good enough. You need to be your own person and eventually you'll do that. But you are still so young.

You haven't found the right guy yet. Trust me, that can take up a lot of your time. So try to live your life.

There is a lot of things out there to see, and do, and experience. Love with a guy is one of those great things, but it isn't and never will be the only great thing.

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A female reader, Love is all you need United Kingdom +, writes (1 August 2009):

Love is all you need agony auntKate you probably are all those things, you just haven't met the right man that makes you feel all warm and fuzzy inside, the one that knows what makes you laugh what makes you happy. But if you really want one then just try to get to know some guy you sit beside in a class, you may find out he likes some stuff you like orsomething. if you want to break the ice just try accidentally on purpose flick your hair in his face or hit him, eventually he will say why are you hitting me or canyou stop hitting me, and you just go 'what? i didnt hit you' and then you'l can go into a flirting argument and you'll start talking. and if you want to really make him want you don't look or talk to him for a day but if he starts talking to you just say 'hold on i'm talking to...' and talk with someone else.

hope this will help....xxx

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