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writes:Im so in love with my ex still its so upsetting and making me ill.we were together 3 yrs on/off! Off cos he just cant do commitment. He trys but when were getting close or talking bout marriage or moving in he backs away. Weve talked bout this and he admits hes messed up in the head. Hes the type of guy who has got a reptation as a womaniser. And when he meet me his life got turned upside down. Hed never had someone look after him.do anything for him. Love him like i do.as he has treated women badly in the past and moved from one to another. Hes a very hard man on the outside and really soft in the centre.and he said b4 me he couldnt show it to anyone.our love was so intense. The thing is ive had to walk away cos i cant take it anymore i need more and to feel secure.ive blocked him totally to try and move on. But i cant. The thought of him being with someone else kills me.i get the shakes and become emotional if think i might bump into him or hear something bout him. As he works with my brother. I truly hope one day he will realise and he come back to me.i know him and hes said him no other girl will ever come close to you. I just find it so frustrating. I love him. He loves me. But we arent together! Everywhere i go i just wish he was with me. I cant stop it the only time i not thinking bout him is when i sleeping. I just cant understand when you love someone why wouldnt you want to be with them? I get men ask me out but i dont want them.cos they are not him. Im lonely and hes holding me back.he has even said that he know we had something so special and that in his own mind i would find it hard too! Its like he just want a few more yrs going out having fun . And then when hes ready i will be there. But i cant put my life on hold even though i want him bad. Please help.i just dont know what to do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 August 2009): he is not a sort of reliable.dont think of him .life doesnt end here.talk to him and tell him your feelings and ask his too .you could ask help from your brother too to convince him.if he loved you he shall not hesistate.dont keep on thinking of him it will only distress you and screw thing up.
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