New here? Register in under one minute   Already a member? Login245057 questions, 1084625 answers  

  DearCupid.ORG relationship advice
  Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!Search
 New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us .  Articles  . Sitemap

Sleeping with the enemy.

Tagged as: Big Questions, Forbidden love, Three is a crowd<< Previous question   Next question >>
Question - (1 August 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 5 August 2009)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, *damski91 writes:

Sex with an enemy. Well sort off, I have fallen out with an ex friend after he ruined my chances of promotion by copying my proposal and sending it in at the same presentation to the board. I have always liked his wife and she used to really like me so I took advantage and when he was away, slept with her in his bedroom, and in his car. After he returned he found my mp3 player in his car and I had to convince him nothing happened. But now she has fell out with me, and I can't keep the secret any more and can't stand the guilt, also my falling out with her has given me motivation to tell him. I don't know what to do, help!

View related questions: player

<-- Rate this Question

Reply to this Question


Share

Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question!

A female reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2009):

what a child you have been behaing like. getting in yyour friends wifes pants just because he was better than you atw ork. what will you do next when someone else beats you at work- go out and fuck the entire family?? if you behave like a child you will be trated like one, by everyone around you. if you want to be taken seriously then start acting like an adult. do you think by having sex with his wife in his bedroom made you fell smarter. or made you a better person. well he is getting rid of his scum anyways so just who is the loser here, again. you may have fucked his wife but you still are the loser. big time.

<-- Rate this answer

A female reader, Love is all you need United Kingdom +, writes (1 August 2009):

Love is all you need agony auntif you tell him your just going to make her more upset with you and it won't change anything, he will still have the proposal thing. But if your not bothered about the wife tell him...ruin his marriage.

hope this helped....xxx

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A male reader, jj. United States +, writes (1 August 2009):

your a nut ..get some morals..try counseling it works..

leave another mans women ,family or animals alone..

realize that you have ruined a family ..why? revenge..sad.

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A female reader, thatgothgirl20 United States +, writes (1 August 2009):

thatgothgirl20 agony auntWhy did you sleep with her if you didn't want him to know? Did you want like a secret revenge? I thought people who wanted revenge rubbed it in their enemies faces. What you did was a horrible thing to do, but I think that you should tell him. His wife was not an innocent victim in this. She consented. You are both guilty.

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

Add your answer to the question "Sleeping with the enemy."

Already have an account? Login first
Don't have an account? Register in under one minute and get your own agony aunt column - recommended!

All Content Copyright (C) DearCupid.ORG 2004-2008 - we actively monitor for copyright theft

0.0468624999994063!