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Went to a massage parlor- how do I tell my wife about this?

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Question - (1 August 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 5 August 2009)
A male Australia age , anonymous writes:

About a week ago I had a massage and didn't know it was a brothel until it was too late. I generally a massage every 4 weeks at a reputable place but recently they were not available so I went to one that was advertised near my home. I checked it out and it seemed ok, the massage was quite good until we got near the end where it became somewhat personal. Very soon after, the masseur stopped and when she did not continue I turned around and at the same time she put her leg over me and gently sat on me, naked. I immediately pushed her off but I think her vagina which felt wet had touched the top of my penis and to make matters worse I had herpes (something that happened before I got married) with two open blisters which may also have made contact . I pushed her off, jumped up and immediately had a shower. When I asked her why she did that I discovered that she didn't speak english ( the person at the counter was different to the person who massaged me). To say that it was a shock and awe experience is an understatement, I was beside myself and saw my doctor and am having tests done hiv etc. He said that I will have to have another test in 6 weeks another in 3 months and the final one in 6 months.

I have no idea what to tell my wife.

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A male reader, Your friend Australia +, writes (5 August 2009):

Your friend agony auntThanks for the advice, I hope you are both right or you could get another post, hope not.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2009):

Just tell her what happened, she'll probably think it's funny.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 August 2009):

Tell her just what you told us. You went there in ignorance and turned down the offer of sex. Unless she's got reason to be suspicious, she'll give you a pat on the back.

I was in a big city for a conference a few years ago, and was propositioned by a hooker on the way back to my hotel. I told my wife exactly what the sales pitch was, and told her she should be glad I only had $50 on me. We had a good laugh about it.

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