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writes:is it wrong to go out with a guy who loves you but you just like him? when you might also still have feelings for your teacher? xxx Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2009): Well nothing gonna happen wqith the teacher because I doubt the feelings would be reciprocated and even if they were the repercussions of his actions would be huge. Sorry. I think that you should efo give your bf a good go cos you never know your feewlings for may blossom :) x
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reader, IrishLeprechaun  +, writes (1 August 2009):
You are just like me.
I have a boyfriend but I have very strong feelings for my teacher. Although he doesn't actually teach me. I guess my boyfriend is what keeps me human he is like a way to not go insane.
He knows that I love a teacher as I told someone who I though I coould trust but obviously not. He is fine with it. He tends to zone out when people tease me
But yeah. Just be straight out. Tell him that you have feelings for a teacher but you still wanna be with him (if you do). Teacher and student never go together until he no longer teaches you. If you don't wanna stick with him. Take quiet-echo's advice
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reader, Original shiraz! +, writes (1 August 2009):
dont lie to him or yourself in the long run hed apreciate your honesty rather than you lying to his face, be honest with your feelings its the best way to start a relationship, you know how your feeling so stick by the facts and what you know you need to do.
As for the teacher situation its always a no hoper sorry, that situation cant work and for all the right reasons, even if your feelings still remain it wont make a difference, move away from this to save the hurt and embarresment for you both, dont go down that path you come out worst. Move on and find someone new someone that suits you someone you love.
Best of luck in finding a way forward.
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