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writes:My girlfriend is going through a divorce and she has a child with her soon to be ex-husband. She goes over to his house when it is time for her to get her daughter, and she goes into his house. She had him pick her up from the airport when I was unable to because I was sick and she told me she was coming home by way of an airporter. She asked her daughter in front of me if a girl that she saw at his place was his girlfriend. She asked this question twice and her 6 year old daughter replied " Mommy I told you already that it isn't his girlfriend ".She doesn't orgasm with me but says she orgasmed with past relationships. I believe she is way to involved with her ex-husbands life. When I bring it up, she gets angry, not understanding and reassuring.My question is...Am I wrong in thinking that she doesn't orgasm because she is not over her ex-husband, and am I wrong in thinking she wants to know that he still cares about her and that is why she has him pick her up from the airport ?She is 47yrs old and I am 44yrs old.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2009): you are wrong. you have two things going on here and trying to link them is not the right thing to do.
the non - orgasm stuff as Satin says is from one of million things- mostly the thought of non orgasming that's causing it. Talk to her and build up slowly.
The EX - thing - she spent her life with this person they had a child. Why do you covert so much of her time that you wont let share this time with someone else, the father of her child? - there is a lot of history there - it does not mean she wants to have sex with him or be with him. Just that they can work together. It is not a reflection on you any more than your friends are on her.
Hugs, Star.x.
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