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writes:I'm a 20 year old female nad my problem is probably common but would like your opinions please. . .Ive never had a relationship which lasted more than 3 months and to be honest it was never really good, I'm a pretty decent looking girl with a good job and a really nice personality (I'm not big headed this is just what people tell me), I regularly meet guys in nightclubs/pubs who seem genuinely interested and i will maybe have a date or two with them then they dont seem to want to know me which is ok if they arent interested but they never seem to let me know this they just ignore me . . Ignore my texts, phonecalls, emails the lot and this seems to happen every time.I started seeing a really nice guy, went on a few dates, got to know each other, he told me he thought about me a lot and really liked me then he started ignoring me too, i just dont understand it! Whats wrong with me??I have been told previously that i am too nice but in my opinion that was just an excuse although i can be a bit soft sometimesDoes anyone have any answers for me as im fed up :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 August 2009): You may try letting the guy make all of the phone calls and texts for the first two or three months. Guys don't like it when you behave like a girlfriend if they haven't told you they want you to be their girlfriend. Men like the chase.
That said, a bar is a terrible place to meet a quality man.
Look where guys that have a life hang out in their free time...sports are good, church, volunteering, clubs, classes, bookstores....
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reader, timbo  +, writes (1 August 2009):
Well, guys like a challenge, a woman who shows confidence, a woman with a mind of her own, goals of her own.(at least here in the U.S.) You can be too nice, I broke up with a girl once for being too nice, I felt terrible about it but that was really why. Have you contacted the last guy and insisted on an answer for blowing you off? Plus, remember, most guys in bars are looking for some serious action not a relationship. Im saying, when they don't get some quick booty maybe they just forget you. If that's true, don't change you, change the guy. Try meeting someone elsewhere. Good luck
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