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anonymous
writes: My boyfriend and i have been together for 3 years now we live together and have a 13month old son...problem is we constantly arguing and fighting because if always thinks i am lying and hiding things away from him when infact he is the one who is keeping things from me his constantly looking on the internet for other women to have cyber sex with he has countless profiles on dating sites some times he evan gets there women to mms him naked pics of them selfs to him. I have caught him on many occasions i have read the chats and seen the pics, and when i confront him he denies it and gets all angry and says that i am imaging it evan if i show him in black and white! I told him from the start that i feel that cyber sex and flirting is cheating but yet he still does it! What should i do i want to leav him but i love him and i dont want to take his son away from him but i also want him to stop wait his doing cos it hurts so much
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reader, Love is all you need +, writes (2 August 2009):
you could break it up and still let him see the boy, let him come round every few days or let him go to the dad at the weekend, dont fight for custody!
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 August 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks i think i am going to do that
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reader, timbo +, writes (1 August 2009):
hi, stop arguing about it and tell him flat out that if he doesn't stop the emotional abuse (thats what this is) and attempt to change and grow up that you are going to leave him. Take control, be in control. Tell him what he's doing is wrong and it hurts you. If thats not enough reason for him, somethings wrong and you should get out. Also tell him you are not trying to take away his son, you can work out visitation or joint custody. Good luck
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