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How do I tell my wife that I want to see her with another man?

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Question - (1 August 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 2 August 2009)
A male United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I want to watch my wife have sex with another man but I am not sure how to break the Ice?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2009):

To be honest.... if your wife was into it you would have known by now. This is a situation that I have been in where my other half asked me to sleep with another man. Although highly sexual in a fantasy, real life is soooo much different. In my situation if this was what I wanted I would have asked before it was brought up by him. If I was you and wanted clarification on this matter I would ask your wife about something that you watched on Tv about this then WATCH HER FACE! Her face will tell you exactly what she thinks of it and if you are close enough watch her pupils. they will get bigger if she likes the sound of it. It's never what someone says that matters, it's what they DON'T say. Good Luck!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (1 August 2009):

I should add we have been together for a long time and I want to spice up the sex life. I am pretty sure I can handle the threesome, it is something I want to do as much for her as me. Women are complex sexual creatures with many turn ons. I feel as if a woman to have 4 hands on her, two mouths and so on could give her pleasure in ways one man cannot

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A female reader, Renee okc United States +, writes (1 August 2009):

Now that is a very good question, I would just ask her if she would like to have a threesome and see what she says and go from there. You never know she may want to do it willing and may already have someone in mind for the job. The question is will you be able to handle seeing it for real instead of just in your mind. think about this one buddy you might just open a can of worms. I would recommend being honest and maybe you would want to start with some porn to break in the conversation.

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