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writes:Hola :D So one of my best guy friends is a REAL BIG flirt. He flirts with every single girl 24/7. Although he doesn't flirt with me, he told me he thought I was cute once and on occasions he pinches my cheeks and tells me I'm funny, but he does it very rarely. He will flirt with girls even if he doesn't like them all the time and I was wondering why he hardly flirts with me. I liked him at one point, told him, but he said he only likes me as a close friend, and he thought I was really cool. But if he flirts with other girls who are good friends with him who he isn't in to, how come he doesn't flirt with me even though he likes my personality and finds me attractive? Thanks in advanced :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2009): He thinks of you , as his sister.
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reader, Love_is_all_youu_need +, writes (6 August 2009):
 I agree with what most posters have said; it would be unfair for him to flirt with you because it would mess with your emotions and he would be leading you on.
However, you could consider the possibility that he may not have you liked you back then/confused as to how he felt, but perhaps his feelings have changed towards you? He may be flirting with other girls to make you jealous. Just ask yourself when this flirting started; was it before or after you told him how you felt?
If it was after then i would bare in mind the possibility of him trying to make you jealous. If this is the case, read up on 'body language' it gives you a list of indications that suggest he may like you.
Then again, he may just be a natural flirt and actually see you as ONLY a friend
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 August 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionBut I no longer like him, and he knows that, alot of the other girls he flirts with like him too. Thankyou for your answers :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 August 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWe were never in a relationship and he flirts with other close girl friends. Please read the question again.
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reader, eddie34  +, writes (1 August 2009):
 How long have you been together? It could be a sign he is looking for more sexually... Allot of guys get like this after a certain amount of time in a relationship. This is a good read for you: http://www.articlesbase.com/marriage-articles/the-fact-about-married-man-and-flirting-chat-166944.html Talks about the facts of my married men flirt.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 August 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI don't have feelings for him anymore.
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