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*handni
writes:i am involved with this guy since last two yrs and by the end of one year of our relationship i came to know that he was already married to a girl abroad.now as he too has gone abroad to his wife last 7 months back but he still claims to come back soon to marry me after divorcing the girl.he hardly gives me any phone calls because he says he is helpless and does`nt want that his wife shld come to know anything at this point of time.he claims that his wife too is involved with some1 else and so divorce is a sure deal.i love this guy dearly but pissed off with his behaviour and the situation itself.plz help me with some suggestions.
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reader, chandni +, writes (7 September 2009):
chandni is verified as being by the original poster of the question hey hi..evry1 out thr..friendz m really thankful to you all fo getting me outta all that crap..Now i realised whtevr was going on in my life was so wrong.i was so pissed off with all wht he said.I got upset,cried n also faced many mood thrills whn i ws involved wid him.But thn,after reading the responses that u all gave...i decided not to receive his calls or answer his mails.And guess what..i m recovering out of all those negative feelings day by day.Now m single and m very happy.Just concentrating on my career and my future.Tough at times i do miss him yet i feel quite relaxed than b4.The whole credit goes to all you angels who helpd me get outta !!!!!!! THANX A TONNEEEE!!!!!!!!
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reader, summeramber  +, writes (5 August 2009):
hi,
i am in the same situation apart from he does not love his wife he only loves her because she is the mother of his son and now he has gone back to the country where they are i have had no contact with hin now for 3 days and i dont know if he has got there safe or not so i understand how you feel just dont know what to suggest to you as i dont know what to do myself
sorry
all the best
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2009): He's overseas with his wife and lied to you about something major. If he was with you while he was married, he clearly didn't see a future with you. Since he's on his trip, now would be the best time to stop taking his calls, answering his e-mails, etc. Cut off contact and stop eating the crap he's feeding you. You can do so, SO much better.
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reader, Intimate Answers  +, writes (2 August 2009):
 Hi sweetie,
It does not seem like this is a healthy situation for you. You deserve better... but YOU have to believe that and remove yourself from the drama.
Much Love and Many Blessings!
-Taylor
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reader, jeny1239 +, writes (1 August 2009):
just imagine both different characters instead of u both.........u will understand in a minute that how he tries to use u n making u fool.
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