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writes:MY boyfriend and i have been togeather since Dec. 2008 and he ive caught him watching porn and he admits to it but when im talking to him at night and he gets off the phone early i ask him if he is really going to bed and tells me yes. but today i got on his computer and went to his browsing history while he was downstairs and discovered that he has watched porn everyday this week. i dont see him through the week but i always come over on friday and i even found history in there from today. and the night that he told me he was going to bed i found history from exactly right after the time we got off the phone. we are young but when i am with him on the weekend we usually have sex once to twice a day. is it normal to have sex all wekend and then wont to watch porn the rest of the week. i dont no how to ask him about it now because i dont want him to get mad and tell me to leave. i love him i just dont no how to handle this situtation. can you help?
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reader, crackheadsgonewild +, writes (2 August 2009):
I'm a fifteen year old girl. I plan to get married one day, make money, and all that stuff. I also love to watch porn and that is not going to change regardless of who I'm with. Porn is not an emotional thing. It's a physical thing. He's not watching it because he doesn't love you. He's watching it because he wants and orgasm and doesn't want to bother you to give it to him all the time. If you can't deal with him and his porn, then leave. My byfriend/husband is going to have to accept me for me. If I love porn, but he doesn't like me looking at it, he has two choices; stay and deal with it, or leave.
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reader, DLover  +, writes (1 August 2009):
Lots of men, satisfied or not, in couple or not, do watch porn. It is not intended to hurt you in any way, but rather to satisfied a need that cannot be satisfied right at the moment they have it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 August 2009): well,it's like this, so what if he watches porn. you shouldn't be snooping because it's not your right and you might find more than you care to deal with,and you did and he shouldn't be lying about it. i know i was in a couple of ldr and would see my gf on most weekends. we would 'knock it out' 4 or 5 times in a 24 hr period, and i'd still watch porn in the week if i wanted to.big deal,it was my choice, i was alone and i wasnt cheating on her.nothing wrong with building up the appetite before you go to the table to eat!!you checked his computer and you found he was home, with his porn, give him a break,he wasnt bangin some other chick!
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 August 2009): well many couples who have sex also watch porn if it whether it is the man,woman or both.porn is a way to help relieve yourself if alone or just fun to watch in general.
and most men in a relationship will always add to satisfy thier visual/sexual needs with porn.it does not mean he doesnt enjoy sex with you dear.
hope this helps
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