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writes:My husband wants to swing I thought I could try this but I didn't do so well I got mad and had a fight with him. He wants a little fun in our marriage so I thought I could do this I don't know If I can do this without getting mad and arguing with him. We have had a three some and that was ok I just don't think I like the fact that he is with another woman What should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 August 2009): i have experienced a thre some a few times with my husband and his mate, its brought us alot of troubles after been in a solid relashionship for 25ys. My husband has recently told me hes bisexual and has had experiences before we met with men, and he has told me he has feelings for his mate, i dont know what to do. I feel 25yrs have been a lie. dont try swinging but a stop to it now before it destroys you like it is me. if anyone could please help me with some advise i would be extremely greatfull.im desperate.
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reader, lionelhutz +, writes (1 August 2009):
I had a friend who went through this. Her marriage was "falling apart" and she agreed to this to make her husband happy. Not only did she dislike it, but it made things worse as her husband grew jealous of the men she was with. If you are not comfortable, don't do it.
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reader, Blondy +, writes (1 August 2009):
 You shouldn't do anything you're uncomfortable with. Once you've told him that you aren't comfortable with the idea of swinging he should drop it. If this is causing arguements before it even happens, what is going to happen after it takes place? More fighting. If you aren't comfortable with it then it definately wont be fun for you, if he still wants to go through with it then it shows he doesn't really put your happiness first, which is bad. Don't do anything you don't want to do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 August 2009): I would strongly advise not to do this unless you know deep in your heart that you will feel no jealousy whats so ever it will destroy your marriage it destroyed my marriage completely we was ok with it whilst it was happening but it was after when my husband started asking crazy questions ie did you enjoy that eating you out you received was he better than me etc and i knew then we had made a mistake then the mistrust and violence started thats when i knew i had to leave him we had a great marriage prior to this
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