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writes:I am virgin till now, and me and my boyfriend decided to have a baby, but both of us dont know how it can be possible. he is not able to ejaculate in me, and all of his sperm just went out. he tries to do so but..........is there symptom that shows that yes it went in or not.how can i know that i m still virgin? is it possible that caz of slim n small vagina its not happening..........both of us are like illiterate in this.......pls help.
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reader, Love is all you need  +, writes (1 August 2009):
 maybe he his sperm isn't fertile or u aren't but there are tones of differnt ways around this, you could:adopt, have someone else carry it for you....ok maybe no tones of ways but maybe your not doing it for long enough or try doing it every night.
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reader, k_c100 +, writes (1 August 2009):
 The hymen could have broken during childhood or if you have ever used tampons. Breaking your hymen can happen naturally without sex, things like horse riding and gymnastics can break the hymen without you even knowing! If your boyfriend has put his penis inside you then then the chances are it is already broken!
As long as your boyfriend puts his penis inside you, then there is always a chance you can get pregnant.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 August 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks...........i never bleed during those movement, so wonder about breaking of hymen. if it is not broken still there is chances to get pregnant.
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reader, k_c100 +, writes (1 August 2009):
Ok well I'm not totally sure what you were saying there in your question but I'll give you the basics of sex and pregnancy.
1. If a penis has been inside your vagina then no, you are not a virgin. It doesnt matter if he ejaculated or not, or whether it went the full way inside your vagina. As long as your boyfriend's penis was inside you then you are no longer a virgin.
2. Basically, your boyfriend has to put his penis inside your vagina and have sex with you until he climaxes where his semen (the creamy whitish substance that comes out of the end of the penis) leaves his penis and ends up in your vagina. Then the sperm in his semen (the fluid contains the sperm) swim upwards inside you until it reaches the womb, where hopefully they will meet your egg (that is released from the ovary) and hopefully fertilise the egg.
3. Pregnancy doesnt always happen straight away, sometimes you will be trying for a few months before you get pregnant.
4. The size of your vagina does not make any difference to whether you will get pregnant or not. If you feel you have a small vagina and it hurts when you are having sex, you will just need to keep on having sex to stretch the vagina so sex feels more comfortable.
5. Some amount of semen will come back out of your vagina after sex - this is due to gravity! It doesnt mean that you wont get pregnant, and if you really want a baby that badly then you could try putting a pillow under your hips after sex so that gravity is working in your favour rather than against you!
I dont understand why your boyfriend cant ejaculate inside you? Has he got a medical condition? And what do you mean by the "sperm just went out"? where did the sperm go? If sperm came out of his penis then it means he can ejaculate - that is what ejaculation is!
Feel free to ask any more questions!
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 August 2009): Umm... I think you all need to slow down there! You're not even sure if you have lost your virginity and now you want to have a baby??? So many questions... How old are you and long have you been together? Have you talked about what the future will be like, such as marriage or making a home for a baby? Your gynecologist will be ale to tell you if your hymen broke during sex (that's what losing your virginity is). You might want to talk to you're gynecologist anyway before getting pregnant. Some women with slender builds may not be able to support a baby. Talk to them, they will have tons of information for you.
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