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I'm so in love with him and he told me never to talk to him again. Why is he texting me NOW?

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Question - (1 August 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 10 August 2009)
A female Spain age 30-35, anonymous writes:

okay so i had this boyfriend since 2006 we been on and off since then. i gave him all my heart and i love him so much. i stood agains my family for him n he wouldnt do thhe same for me but i ignored it...

for valentines day we went out for a romantic date we went to the pier and walked he had tagged up a wall reading i luv u lori ..totally cute. then we went to his place and made out everywhere okay yah know where this is leading too.. no i dont have sex not until theres a ring on my finger!!! so we dont do nothing but make out....

so he takes me home and i dont hear from him again for two weeks until i decided to call him and ask why he didnt call (before this he would call at least 3x a day... his answer was that he didnt know why he didnt call me.... i was upset and hung up. he didnt calll bak until the next month in which he kept calling but i guess it as fate i was doing something else or dont have my phone on me because i always missed his calls and when i did answer hed be like watevr then one time we talked and he was all lubby wubby... then next time i just send him a txt sayin hi=] he replyed by saying to delete his number from my phone and never to talk to him again...!! this hurt mee reallly bad.... had a lady by now... so its part my fault ...

its 2 months since hes been with her.

he called me like 2 days ago from his house... iwas sleeping so didnt answer.

its his bday today he is officially 21... he always has big o partys for his bday

but idnt think thats why i have a missed call from him i hardly evr went to his partys..

why would he call me after all this time..

was it him that send me that txt or his lady?

should i just pretend like didnt love him any more????

the txt said to delete his numbers from my phone n never to talk to him again, how can i delete him from my life ?

i love him and its like i know his number by heart ....

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2009):

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so yeah he called n texted and his excuse is that he was drunk...

most def im moving on he still wants to play games with my heart and ill admit i did play games then but now im more mature n just want something serious a real relation ship. its apperant hes not that guy n i waste denough time with him.... so movin on

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2009):

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yeah u readers r rite i shouldnt waste any more tim on him

n i though we were really tryoing to set things straight for us a relationship but now i see that that was all me. he just saw me as a booty call that he couold call when he had no options....

so thanx for reading my question and takin time to answer

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A female reader, Renee okc United States +, writes (1 August 2009):

Move on he is just full of drama, if you can tell. He is doing this because he figures you are so in love with him that you will keep letting him come back and he can say what he wants to you. He was probably having problems with his current women and thought he would give you a call. Love is over rated sometimes you need to let this emotional mess go before he drags you down to his level. Why would you want someone who wont even stand up to his family for you anyway, it sounds like you are being a doormat and letting him do all the walking girl wake up and smell the flowers not the dirt.

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