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writes:hello everyone...okay so ill just get straight to the point.i REALLY like an older man and he REALLY likes me too and recently we have been talking about "hooking up" only problem is im a virgin but he thinks im not (x3) because one day i was with my bff and didnt feel like texting so she was supose to be texting exactly what i said....she didnt obviously but when i got my phone back they hade been talking "dirty" (lol) and didnt have the heart to tell him he was messing with my bff.so my question is how do i make it look/feel like im not a virgin??!!*this may sound really stupid but im very serious*thanks X
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2009): hi lovlie dont panic about the age gap im 17 and in love with a 24 your old..so what? i did notice you said your mate was texting and not you maybe he only likes you because your freind was texting slutty things to him and come on men only want a slut for One thing.. keep your virginity in this situation.wait till you find THE ONE.x
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionit could have been so much worse.....we could have been 14 and 30.
lighten up...hes right at 16.
eather way its a little too late to change my mind.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni told himand no its not a crime....im 14 and hes 16.we did do it and it was amazing....thanks everybody
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2009): Think maybe before one goes throwing out terms like "creeper and Pedophile", perhaps the girl might tell us how much older he is?
There is no need to hide the fact that you're a virgin. My advice coincides with Livelife and the first anonymous.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2009): I would agree with the last aunt, to stay away from him.. just telling him you're a virgin will get the creeper even more interested in you, and if he's only interested in hanging out with little girls instead of women his own age, that's saying there's something wrong there. In any case, if you did decide to become sexual, he would probably figure out real fast that you had no clue what you were doing and that you were therefore a virgin, but I would not recommend telling this guy this information. I keep envisioning a 30+ yr. old, is this right? Because I would steer clear, it's really not safe for you to be involved with someone like that at your age.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2009): It says you're 13-15... with an older guy... I smell a crime about to happen.
First off, why pretend you're not a virgin? Why not tell him that your friend took your phone and texted that stuff? Most guys prefer virgins, and if you're 15 or younger, he probably expects you to be one.
But seriously... if the guy is that much older than you, he's probably a pedo or a borderline pedo... hang out with boys your own age, and you won't even need to worry about lying about your virginity.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 August 2009): Don't try to pretend you are not a virgin, it is okay to be a virgin, be you and don't try to hide it. If he is a nice guy he will understand. You have plenty time to loss your virginity, don't rush in to it either wait until you are ready.
Also just tell him it was your bff messing around.
Good luck with things.
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reader, Livelife +, writes (1 August 2009):
You shouldn't pretend it was you if it wasn't, and of course you want him to like you for you, not for what your bff was saying to him. Just be honest with him and tell him that maybe you're not ready for that stuff yet. It's okay you're a virgin, you're young still, he should understand that and not pressure you into anything. I hope this helps some, you can always message me or anyone else on here if you still have questions. Good luck!
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