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writes:Hi i posted this question the other day and got lots of fantastic answers. since then we took the car to the garage yesterday and spent 14 hours driving to different places and got dinner together. whats everyones thought on this is it a good sign??Hi, please help im getting sad :)I have worked with a girl for a year now. up until 2 and a half months ago i had a girlfriend. i always liked the girl i worked with but would never dream of cheating. the girl from work dated a guy from work too but he cheated on her and they split bout 4 months ago it was a bit messy and public at work. i have told the girl how i feel about her and we have always been good friends. other people in work have also said to both of us that we should go outbecause we get on so well. we txt each other all the time. she said that she didnt want to go out cause after the split with the guy from work she saw a guy but it was complicated and she is still getting over it and severing the ties. this was a few months ago that they split. she said that she doesnt want a relationship till she is over it and this is the reason and she is not protecting my feelings. we went a drive on mon night to a 24 hr supermarket to get a present for her friends boy. we are also goin to drop her car off at my fathers garage on fri and then go to lunch to celebrate her moving dept at work, but as friends. we have such good fun together and others think so too. i think that maybe she wants to see how we get on in thse situations 1st and that if i am there for her and impress her then maybe when she is ready she will want more.......please help what do u think.....thankyou
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reader, Love is all you need +, writes (3 August 2009):
 just say like 'why can't a friend compliment each other, i mean yeah i find you attractive but i wouldn't go with it if i'd ruin our friendship' not these exact words!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell i went over to her house about ten last night then left at 4 in the morning. txt her to tell her i got home safe and made a joke about having to control myself cause she is so sexy and she said that if i felt like that we couldnt be friends......i just dont know? :(
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reader, Love is all you need +, writes (2 August 2009):
yes thats a good sign, it means she wants to spend time with you and know you better. Unless she just needed a lift home lol only kidding ak her out again
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reader, calabarguy  +, writes (1 August 2009):
 Dating someone you really like is great. But there should be no rush about this. Just wait and enjoy your friendship as long as possible before starting the relationship. Let the love grow. That's one way of ensuring your bodies will be separated. Because once you start dating, things get automatic. And can get complicated. Time has to grow your love, and heal her past wounds, before you breathe fresh air.
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