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writes:i have a boy in my mind and think of proposing him but i cant imagine how he would react and i dont want to loose him since he may not like my idea or may be liking another girl and i think i even dont know how to get started and blurt out everything in my mind to him.should i give up every thing and try to just satisfy my self with his friendship and forget about him later when we get out of touch.please help me i am in great distress and feel a huge weight in my heart. Reply to this Question
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reader, noonespecial2  +, writes (8 August 2009):
Hi there,
Are you meaning marriage proposal?
How long have you known him?
I can't give a complete answer until I know this.
You mentioned you had a frienship with him. I think your best to aim toward making your feelings known to him.
You said you think he likes another girl. How do you know this?
He may think you're not into him in a romantic way and is looking elsewhere for romance. Best to let him know your feelings about wanting to start a relationship with him.
You'll have to consider that the frienship will be at risk if you do let him know your feelings. There is the possibility the friendship could continue, it depends on whether he and you can continue as friends while you think of him this way.
To give a better answer, I'll need to know some more.
Good luck.
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