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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes: Hey, I just currently turned 14 and my boyfriend's about a year and 5 month's older than me. We have a very long distance relationship, but we've gotten to the stage of phone sex. And for some reason I won't do it with him, I feel bad because I talk about it with him and I'm not 100% comfortable talking about it with him, I feel bad because I can talk about and do phone sex with another guy Ii know. But I stopped ever since I've been dating my boyfriend. He's not pressuring me but I know he's the one I want to have sex with, I just need a little more help understanding phone sex?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2009): You don't need help on understanding phone sex, you've already said that you were able to do it with another guy without a problem. But for some reason you aren't comfortable doing it with your new boyfriend and you need to figure out why. Trying to block out how uncomfortable it makes you isn't going to help. So stop trying to have phone sex until you feel you can do it with him.
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reader, Shonababes +, writes (5 April 2009):
During phone sex u dont always need to tlk about it. Just make orgasmic noices. But if u feel insecure with it all please please please dont be afraid to say no. Good Luckk x
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