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36-40,
anonymous
writes:My girlfriend has lied to me and has to me that she will never hurt me again. She hung out with other guys while was at home in bed and she said that she didn't want to do anything for the evening and she got really drunk with them. She also lied to me about the number of guys she has been with. Now that i have been away for six months she is moving in with my parents and doesn't want to lose me. She said that she has never cheated on me but i don't believe her. What should i do? keep her or get rid of her?
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reader, the_phoenic  +, writes (5 April 2009):
most of men/women who are used to cheating and to lying well continue and the possibiliteis that they might stop arent so high i am affraid,
get rid of her ond get red that weight on your shoulders,
their might be a dozen of good girls arround you and they want to start clean and serious a relation with you and remember that love cures love,
good luck
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reader, joser590 +, writes (5 April 2009):
You have to ask yourself if you want it to work out with her in the end. Do you really love this girl and can you see yourself in the future with her if she never cheated again?
I believe people cheat because they are bored or DRIVEN AWAY BY SOMETHING. Maybe in your case it was the long distance. Try to work on that part of your relationship. I assume you really can't on the long distance. If you are in the service and she cheated on you while you were overseas that is VERY COLD HEARTED. I had my ex fiance do that to me. Drop her if that is the case.
Next time you talk to her and tell her your trust in her is shaken. If you really love her you will try to build that trust again. I can't blame you for being skeptical.
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