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writes:Hey, well I've been with my boyfriend about a year and a half now, and I've had some amazing times with him, at first, I was really uncomfortable about my body, which he respected and didn't rush me into anything, yet because he learned I didn't like him being anywhere near my bottom half he doesn't hint about doing any sort of oral sex. We had sex about 6months ago for the first time, and we have a really open relationship and I'm obviously almost completely comfortable with him with everything, yet I don't know how to initiate him going down on me (oral) because he's never done so because of how I was when we first started going out. I know if I asked him he would almost probably do it, but I'm nervous to do so.Any ideas on how I could ask him?thanks (:Oh and btw, he's never done anything with another girl so I'm sure he'd be pretty nervous about it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2009): Really, you should just talk with him openly. Me and my boyfriend are able to talk about everything. Since you've already had sex with him I don't see the reason as to why it'd be so hard to ask for oral.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThat's how I'd speak on a casual website; grammar/ language isn't everything. If someone forgot a capital letter would you notify them? Not really.That maybe your opinion to the matter and fair enough, but that doesn't give you the right to instantly judge somebody you don't know, you don't know a thing about me, my lfe or what ever else goes on; you don't understand my relationship with my "long term" boyfriend, the fact that I love him and enjoying my first experiences with him was a decision of my own, one that I will never regret and one that I will only wish to do with him. Were safe, I'm on the pill so getting pregnant ain't an issue, and we lost our virginity to each other so STI's at this point is pretty much out of the question. I'm sorry for the loss of your sister which will obviously give you more reason to provide adivice against sex and what not, but like I said; were safe.I'm not going to spend my time convincing you, because to be honest, I only wanted abit of genuine advice and I hope you understand that just because my age is "only" of 15, that isn't to say that I'm not as mature as somebody a couple if not more years older; which I probably am.I'l leave it at that and whatever you say now or believe won't convince me, I'm stubborn and there'e no changing my mind, so I'd save your time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThat post wern't patronising at all (;
Just because I'm wanting advice on sex it isn't to say that I'm not doing well in school and I arn't a good person or whatever else you're implying.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for the advice,
i'll hopefully try something around about there.
and telling me to wait ain't really g'nner stop me,
especially since we've already had sex.
just to a couple of the posters.
thanks guys (:
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reader, chickchick +, writes (5 April 2009):
 erm , leave a note , maybe just say to him that you feel really comftorbal around him and would trust him ?
maybe just hint it but don't actually say that you want him to go down on you?
see what happends.
not much help , but i think you should hint rather then tell (:
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2009): Maybe you should lay of sex till your old enought to tell a partner what you want
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2009): you are between 13-15 years old you should not even be thinking of that. let alone having sex.
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reader, BellaS +, writes (5 April 2009):
hey
yeh it sounds like he doesnt wanna do it because of how u might react,
u could give him oral, (i dnt no if uve done it with him or not) but that can initiate him to do it to u.
Also, u could just be like to him 'would u ever give me oral' thats not asking for it, but he would proberly do it to u:P
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