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writes:My girlfriend and I have been on weird terms lately and I've had some trust issues recently and I'm trying to open up, but this other day I was in her room and there used to be this picture of us and now it's just gone. A little strange. Anyway, so the past few times we've been together we've been talking and I don't want to bring up anything too intense about me though she may ask because I'm afraid of being vulnerable enough to tell her whats going on. So we'll be close and talking and lovey dovey and then we'll hook up. And she'll be into it. I'll please her and then she'll give me head and I'll last a while and by the end of it seems like shes mad at me for lasting a while... like she's frustrated she's having to work so hard. I don't think it's that she's becoming worried that it's not pleasing me because I reassure her otherwise it's more like come on anytime now... I don't know what to do. I mean we'll be close and then because I'm not sharing stuff I guess there's more tension than normal and then we hook up but the tension seems to get worse. Any advice? Reply to this Question
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reader, MyDestiny +, writes (5 April 2009):
 open up more to her then...its a relationship, it's a relationship it's not gonna be perfect..you both have to work and contribute something to make it work so open up more tell her whats going on in your life, tell her what you hate/love whatever its.
anyways if she thinks that when you last so long it's because she's not pleasing you,..then you need to keep reassuring her
gudd luck
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