A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:One morning(7:30), my boyfriend tells me "I don't want you to talk to "A". I had a major HUGE test (3 hours) that day and it will determine if I'd graduate from high school that day. It totally threw me off. Anyways, I didn't know what to do... so I said "ohkay......" There were barely any dialogue after that until 8:00... where we had to go to school. so we said bye..... and I don't know. So before the test, I'm like all quiet and stuff... Because, really, I don't know how to deal with these kind of stuff.... After 5 minutes, he came over and ionno maybe trying to comfort me. @@ I was sad and confused then. Well, it didn't work. So he was like cuddling me. Then I told him sorry and he mumbled something back ... no idea what he said... o.oAfter that test, I don't know, I guess we made up... because during class, he sat beside me. But I wasn't feel very comfortable, so I was quiet. :/ Don't know what happened, and after school, I'm like happy again. o: maybe because we were playing games during class. oh and during class. I saw him checking my contact list on my phone. @@I acted natural towards him. (afterschool)So that day night, before he went to sleep. He is like " and and no moarr (insert same guys name here)". So I felt like there was a misunderstanding there and tried to clear it up with him. He didnt reply... said nights and went to sleep. ~~~~Here's the problem. I don't even talk to that other guy a lot. He's like an online friend. I don't know why my boyfriend got jealous. We've been together for.... almost 11 month. and I don't get why he doesn't trust me on this... I know we're lacking trust, but I don't know how to gain it again. -sighs- and I'm not the kind of girl who would just openly talk about their feelings just like that. -sighs-No... I don't want to break up with him... He's realy nice, and respects people. I don't know why all of a sudden he'd say something like that. and I'm not that kind of girl who'd cheat on their bf. I know he's jealous, but he could of at least told me so. Instead of ordering me around. I know I can be really nice to people sometimes... (yes even a random guy on the street) Is that the reason which sparked this jealousy thing? :x Do I have to stop being nice to people? @____@" I need advice on what to do next. (If you are going to advice me to break up with him, please provide a good reason. and If you advise me to talk to him about it, tell me how... I really don't know how to deal with these kind of situations.)
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2009): hey guys. thanks for your advice. x:
me and my bf talked about it& cleared it up, and i guess we'll be ohkay on monday. 8D.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (5 April 2009):
I'm not going to tell you to break up with him but I am going to tell you to stop being so awkward about everything and actually say "What are you on about?"
Your boyfriend should not be going through your phone and he should not be telling you who you can and can't talk to.
Tell him that you don't like being told what to do for no reason and ask him why he is suddenly so obsessed with this guy?
Stand up for yourself! No one else is going to in this life!
Good Luck!! xx
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