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30-35,
*ittflo
writes:Hi, I am kind of confused when it comes to men, so I don't really know what the case is with this. I'm in art school, and I had this teacher in one class last semester who recommended that I take another one he was teaching this year. So I did. I had done a really terrific job, so I guess I understood why, and I really liked him. So classes start up again and it's our first day and we're introducing ourselves, and so my turn comes and then my teacher adds in that the reason he recommended I take this class was because I'd done an excellent job in his other class, then he stops almost as if to himself and adds 'among other things', with a little chuckle and his eyebrows raise in an amused fashion. Then when we were doing some exercises I asked if I should start and he said 'Sure' then winked at me, and I don't know if that was because I'm so cute (in high school several teachers would wink at me, I tend to set off the maternal/paternal instincts in people), but he doesn't seem like the type. Or maybe he does. I don't know. And I do admit sort of flirting with him before, but in a discreet way, since I'm sort of fidgety when it gets too physical. I'd just sort of stare at him with a pouty look, or bite my lips, and it was funny because when I did this he was giving a lecture but he'd only stare back at me the entire time, this in a room with some 40 other people. I don't know if he was perplexed by my weird looks or if he thought something else. This happened a few weeks before the class I'm currently taking with him started, and I hadn't seen him since then. I'm sorry, I'm just sort of confused. Can anyone please help?
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reader, apehkah  +, writes (30 May 2009):
Hmm it's kind of difficult to tell. My suggestion is to just not overdo anything it could be a misunderstanding between one or both of you. I myself have made friends with quite a few teachers, and older folk from church, lots of them liked to respond to me in that same way but it was their own way of encouraging me, they didn't mean anything by it. Hope you find out (:
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reader, MidnightSky  +, writes (9 May 2009):
 hey :) wow, its great that he winked at you :D lol. i adore my guitar teacher, and so does my friend, he winked at us both once, so i reckon it was a friendly wink as much i'd have liked it to be more rofl.
hmmm....if he is being flirty with you, carry in being friendly, you both are friends yeah and you are 18 or older so you wouldn't really be doing anything illegal. i think :P
well, i hope it all goes well for you lol! =D x
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reader, Tevote  +, writes (5 April 2009):
 He may have some romantic feelings towards you but it's hard to tell with the men in this society today-so he could just be being his friendly casual self, or he's flirting with you.Just let it happen, I mean if he does something that clearly indicates he's flirting with you or likes you then I don't know do what you want to do. but it's a little hard to tell now,So continue being friendly, and I wish you the best :).My advice is a wee bit off tonight.
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