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writes:Basically I met this guy, lets call him "Bert", through my group of friends. It was at my friends 16th birthday and we got on really well straight away. Not in the "Love at first sight" way, more like friends - so we swapped MSN addresses and phone numbers. Through the next couple of weeks we spoke quite abit on MSN and texted evryother non-stop. We discovered with share many things in common, and all the way through this we, I guess, flirted with each other non-stop. So last week, it was another one of my friends 16th birthday party and we both went along. While we were there, he didn't stop flirting with me - even my friends commented on how much he flirted with me etc. Also we watched this movie there, and half way through the movie he puts his arm around me - so I cuddle up to him - and then he lifts my head up and starts to kiss me. Like seriously kisses me. However, my friends mum said that the guys weren't allowed to sleep over - so it was just girls sleeping over. When it was time for "Bert", he cuddled me on the road and said that he really liked me and would love to meet up with me more etc. But.On the next Monday in school, "Bert" doesn't go to the same school (my school is girls only), my friends tells me that "Bert's" best friend (who she is going out with) told her that he had a girlfriend. He hasn't told me any of this. Basically the whole time, he was telling me he liked me/kissing me etc. he had been dating this girl. So I texted him, we met up and I confronted him about the whole thing - and he basically said that he really likes me, and didn't tell me about his girlfriend because he didn't want to wreck his chances with me. Now I don't know what to do.I really like him, but I don't like how he has treated his girlfriend or myself for that matter! What should I do about him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2009): Well, i have kinda been through this myself. Apart from the fact i knew about his girlfriend. He kept telling me that he liked me and was going to dump her etc. In the end i was seeing him behind her back because i thought he had broken up with her (he hadnt really). It broke my heart to end it, but i had to. I couldn't trust a lier. In the end, i think its best not to trust a person who lies straight off. You can never be too sure whether or not hes going to continuously lie.x
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2009): Tell him todump her. However, remember that while you are going out with him he could be touching up some other girl. Have fun.
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reader, Original shiraz!  +, writes (5 April 2009):
somebody that has lied in the begining isnt usally worth it. However so many people take the risk and go down the 'forgiving' path, its so risky as deep down you dont know the person and if hes hurt you once whats stopping him doing it again? people make mistakes but usally have a valied reason, he has no way out of thi one he was just a guy trying to get the best of both worlds when it seriously back fired on him, gossip always gets about and usally gets back to the wrong person. hes messed up big time yet you still like him, my advice would be to move on but most people listen to their heart... its nice to believe he isnt what he really is but hes lied and been caught there is no two ways about it, what you do next is up to you nobody can decide for you i can only advise you to move on and find somebody better who s honest and worth your love. good luck
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