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*usty101
writes:i met my boyfriend through a friend nearly two years ago. he had been in a carnival in America a yr prior to me meeting him and had married an American girl with a 2 yr old son. they married in court and he then moved in with her he knew her 3 months before they married.he left her 2 months later and came back to his home country. we dated after knowing each other for 2 weeks.we lived with my parents for 8 months then moved overseas to live with his parents and now do a job where we live on our own.i know he is the one for me and i love him to death but wen i mention engagement he says he is not ready and gives me small excuses but says it will happen 1 day. i feel inadequate and don't understand how he cant see we are perfect.i have never felt this way and don't want to wait wen it feels so right!!! what must i do?
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reader, ArmyMedic +, writes (5 April 2009):
 He's rushed into things before and doesn't want to do make the same mistake again, give him time, it's not like you've been waiting 5 years or anything.
Enjoy your time together, after all you are living together so the next step is more of a formality anyway.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (5 April 2009):
Well you can't blame the guy for being scared of marriage after rushing into last time.
You've only been together for about a year from what I can see so give it time.
After you've been together for a bit longer and he knows this feeling of love is real and not going to fade he should loosen up a bit.
If he will won't talk about it after your 3 year anniversary then you may want to move on and find someone else.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2009): it sounds like he is only interested in shacking. he dont want what you want. will this be your first marriage.
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