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female
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anonymous
writes: My boyfriend and I have been seeing each other every single weekend since the end of January. He lives about 45 minutes away. Anyway, Well, he was supposed to come over today, I asked my parents and they said yes and we could go pick him up and take him home tonight. Last night, His mom said she didn't know if he was allowed to come over, it depended on if he cleaned his room or not. (He's 14, I'm 13). He did everything he was supposed to do and he asked her earlier if he could come over and she said no. I'm like feeling horrible right now, crying and everything and Idk, I can't stand not seeing him longer than a week and it's killing me inside. He said he would ask his mom if he could come over one day this week like Tuesday or Wednesday, I think he's waiting until tomorrow to ask her though. Is there anything we could do or anything to do to get her to let him come over without her getting mad at him asking again? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (5 April 2009):
He could ask WHY he's not allowed to go.
She doesn't just pull yes and no answers out of the air, so he should sit her down and talk to her like an adult about why she isn't happy about this.
As for you, I know you are young and a week feels like forever and ever, but it's really not. Go out with your friends and fill your time.
My husband is in the army and I don't see him for 6 months sometimes. A week really isn't that bad.
Good Luck!! xx
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