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female
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anonymous
writes:My boyfriend and I met nine months ago at my freshman orientation. He was a volunteer going into his sophomore year in college. We started dating a day after that and he proposed yesterday. I told him I would have to think about it for a couple days to see where I stand with the relationship and he said he understood.I'm just wondering if it may be a bit too early to make such a big decision? I mean, I know I love him and everything and would do anything for him and the same goes for him with me, but I'm only finishing up my freshman year in college. Will marrying this early make that much of a difference down the road?Thanks. Reply to this Question
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reader, tux +, writes (5 April 2009):
 I've seen people who get married after only 3 months that have great marriages and others who have been together for years before marriage but have horrible marriages. You just need to figure out if this is the man you want to spend the rest of your life with and possibly make a family with if you want children. Only you will know when it's time.
That being said. You are still young and have many years ahead to do that. I'm just saying because if you feel you are ready then yes go for it.. but if you are second guessing and thinking it's too early for you... then it probably is toooo early.
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