A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Okay, I Broke up with my Boyfriend a few months ago. I'm not sure if i still have feelings for him. But he lost his virginity right after we broke up. So does that mean he's lying or he had no feelings for me. I don't know whether im hurt he done it so soon or that he did it. Also he puts things on his msn name like 'She's Everything You Weren't ' snorty comments what should i do ? :(
View related questions:
broke up, msn Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, kaylagal  +, writes (5 April 2009):
 Even though you dumped him, I understand you feel a little betrayed. When you break up with someone you want to at least take sometime to get over you. But you have to understand that guys don't value sex the way girls do. Most of his friends are probably not virgins and he just wanted to experience sex. Doesn't mean he didn't care about you. As for what he has on his msn, he's trying to get to you. If he had really moved on he wouldn't do that.
Just ignore him and move on with your life.
A
male
reader, ArmyMedic +, writes (5 April 2009):
 You dumped him! Remember. If you hadn't dumped him (I'm guessing he may have wanted sex with you), he wouldn't have felt bad about himself and needed an ego boost by sleeping with the first tart that would put out.
At least now you know dumping him was the right thing to do.
...............................
A
female
reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (5 April 2009):
It's called rebound. He went out and wanted to prove that he could have a girl if he wanted. You dumped him and hurt him so he did this to make himself feel better.
You split up with him so he can do anything he wants unfortunately and you aren't really justified in moaning about it. If you wanted him to be faithful then you shouldn't split up with him.
As for MSN then just delete him and when you do that it comes up with "block this person too?" tick that. Then you won't see him any more.
It's over and he's bitter about it.
Just move on and accept that he's going to take a while to get over you so he's going to be an arse.
Good Luck!! xx
...............................
|
