A
male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I had been with my girlfriend for over 6 years. I believe she is my soulmate, and she is a awesome person for anyone too know. She had just broken up with me after a year of not acting like the same person I knew and loved. She still texts and talks to me everyday and the end of every conversation she says she loves me... Now with that in mind she always has an excuse not to see me and when she does its for a short time during the day on a sunday, after shes been out on friday and saturday night at the bar with her friends. She shuts me down as soon as i ask a question or try to express my feelings I feel like an abused child or the battered wife in an abusive relationship aand we arent even in one. Is there hope that i can have my soulmate back or is she into other guys and exploring different avenues after being in a relationship for so long?
View related questions:
soulmate, text Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2009): You're not lost...you just have to find a new direction! She is playing you! She wants you on the sidelines, incase she decides you are what she wants...if you can hang with that, then you will always feel lost!
Don't let her pull your strings!
Go out and find a woman who will treat you the way you deserve to be treated...
You say you feel like a battered woman...in other words you feel that she is abusing you. I will tell you what I would tell a battered woman...which by the way is my specialty, since I have been there...Don't allow yourself to be the victim! Stop thinking of yourself as a victim and take control of your own destiny!!!!
|
