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Music fans question

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Question - (5 April 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 6 April 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hey guys...

A music question here!

This is going to sound really silly lol, but...

My first relationship went really wrong, i was emotionally abused and the guy i was with told me things like no guy would ever love me etc... and along with that i have been bullied ever since the first year of school, and all of the other regular problems... the thing is now though, i want to be someting different, make an impact and show the loser i went out with that he made a big mistake [i don't want him back btw] by treating me like that. I'm really untoned, and don't feel pretty, so i want everyone who has ever bullied me, to see me in the street and think 'wow i can't believe thats her'. I have started exercising, etc but the thing is when i feel down, i literally sit there, and feel unable to do anything, and music is the only thing i feel makes a difference, so i wanted to know, does anybody know any songs i can listen to which will pick me back up and inspire me to keep trying to get better?

i'm sorry the question was so long, but i felt that the rest of the information was needed.

Thanks guys xoxo

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2009):

Hey guys, I'm the original poster of the question...

Thanks guys, i sat in my room today listening to all of that and it was fab... i definatley have all of the determination i need to keep me going!

Again thanks guys =] it's all appreciated xox

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2009):

You don't feel at ease, want to make a difference. And would like music to help. Why don't you just try to express you feeling with music? depending on your tastes you might want to try out guitar, taking singing lessons, electronic music (Reason's a good software to start with).... express yourself, express your feelings, let them come out. You'll only feel better afterward, and additionally might make a band with friends, then once on stage all will only see you and think that you ARE different (and if your music's alright, being on stage usually fills people with envy)

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2009):

Try "El elefante - Asi es la vida."(Life is like this) Google a translation of the song to understand it better. It's about separations but has an optimistic message. You WILL circumvent this impasse.

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A male reader, ArmyMedic United Kingdom +, writes (5 April 2009):

ArmyMedic agony auntTry Cradle of filth, track 4, it sounds horrible but is actually quite beautiful.

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