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Advice needed. Does he love me or is he just wanting to get inside my knickers?

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Question - (5 April 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 5 April 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I need to know if he really loves me and doesn't just want to get in my pants. After he fingered me and I gave him a hand-job he wants to do a little more. So do you think he really loves me or not. Hope you can help

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A male reader, ArmyMedic United Kingdom +, writes (5 April 2009):

ArmyMedic agony auntHow can we tell if he loves you when the only information you give us is that he has fingered you?

Seriously sweetheart that's not very helpful is it?

Going from your very short not very informative question I think he wants to get in your knickers.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2009):

I need to answer your question with a question...........

how can you be doing the things you are and yet you have no idea how this guy feels about you. My advice is keep his hands out of your knickers and see how long he's still interested in you.

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A female reader, AgonyAnna United Kingdom +, writes (5 April 2009):

Hi,

from what you have said in your question it is hard to tell whether he loves you or not. You haven't mentioned how he treats you, aside from things concerning sex. My guess is that your relationship is based around sex, else you probably wouldn't even have any doubts and feel the need to ask this question. I suggest that you just ask him straight out where he thinks your relationship is going. The only person who can tell you is the guy himself.

Love, Anna

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2009):

If he loved you you likely wouldn't be asking strangers if he does.

Love is more than sexual excitement.

Here's how to tell if he loves you: withhold sexual interaction, and see how well his friendship holds up through time.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2009):

There's no way to tell if he really loves you from what little you've said. And really I don't know if it's possible to tell without knowing and observing the people in the relationship.

There's an exception to every generalization, but whether or not he loves you, chances are he wants to get into your pants.

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