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writes:Iam in love with this gul ! every time i see her i just want to hug and kiss her. ive told her how i feel but she doesn't believe me. i just want to show her how much i love her.. but she doesn't want to cause she is seeing this other guy.. but i think its just she doesn't want me or because of the guy she is seeing ..? Help Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2009): i got the answer to this question.
she doesent believe you because she thinks you are too young to fall in love with someone. she may be thinking that you are only in lust with her and you call it love , to prove it that you love her you should never give up... carry on telling her how much you love her... remember that love... takes... time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2009): Im sorry in advance if my answer isn't sugar-coated enough for your liking.I'll be the bearer of bad news: i've been that girl. I now realize that using that particular line will never help because it just led the poor guy on. This girl is with somebody else. She doesn't believe that you love her as much as you claim--there are 2 possibilities:1. She doesn't believe you because it's all too good to be true. Shes only with this other guy because she wants to be with you, but she didn't think that would happen.2. (im sorry, but this is more likely) She didn't know what to say, and she was trying to kindly reject you. She with another guy because she likes this other guy. Dude, I'm sorry, but I really think that you have a need to move on. For your own good.Good luck.-GG
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reader, ArmyMedic +, writes (12 April 2009):
 I'm not going to give you a pink and fluffy answer here I'm going to be HARSH because otherwise you will think you have a chance with this girl:
She is NOT interested in you! Get over it!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2009): Here is a simple thing I read (and it has stuck):If she was right for you: she would not be in another state.If she was right for you: she would forgive you for that mistake.If she was right for you: she would not be with another.The bottom line is she is NOT right for YOU. If she was you would be with her. But the good news is somebody else is - and for what it is worth down the road maybe she too will be but today she is not the right one for you; move ahead and don't let it get you down (just know it hurts to love and not get it back) but you will find it (just wait and see :)
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reader, netoide  +, writes (12 April 2009):
 To pull this off you cannot be shy! You're gonna have to show her: first, that you love her more than the other guy and second that she'd be better off with you. You need something that will really call her attention! If you are artsy, write a song or poetry. If you're into sports, dedicate your points (goal, touchdown, home-run, etc) to her. Back in the day you would bring her the head of a dragon, but those are scarce now a days.To put it simple: Be romantic! Oh, and get ready as you may be up for a fistfight with the other guy. You know she is worth it!
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reader, Original shiraz! +, writes (12 April 2009):
There is a reason why she doesnt believe you and until you figure that one out theres no way forward. She probably doesnt apreciate the pressure your putting on her bearing in mind shes in a relationship. If it is that she doesnt want you cause shes with somebody else thn im sorry but things like that you have to accpet, if her mind is made up and shes happy as she is then there is not a lot you can do to change it. Its hard but you need to ease off and start moving on.
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